Cruising the Parks
Today I had this email from James:
"I've met with plenty of guys to get good head but just recently have begun cruising an area park, urban not rural, where men are supposed
to be looking to connect. I'm new to this kind of cruising - are there any ways to let guys discreetly know I'm looking to receive oral? Are there signals guys use in general to show interest when they're in their cars? thanks for any pointers."
Well James having sex outdoors can be a real turn-on. Make sure you are in a place that is reasonably safe. If a park is really busy with a lot of guys cruising, that is generally a good sign. But, don't expect much privacy. You can try and find a semi-private spot, but you may be followed by others who want to join in or watch.
Most cities do have parks where gays meet. It usually will be the main park in the city and will have some cruisy corner. I would not not advise going cruising through some inner city parks at night if you have no idea where you are going or what types of people frequent that park.
Eye contact can be key in parks. If you are walking by some guy and you think he is interested, stop. Stand there for a minute and see if he comes over. If he does not and he is obviously not rejecting you, then maybe you should take a walk back by him. You might give your crotch a squeeze and see if he responds. At this point, he will usually have made some sort of signal as to whether he wants to go further with you or is not interested. Parks that are too exposed for sex can still be convenient places to make contact and have sex elsewhere.
Many parks have cruisy parking lots for those who prefer the safety and privacy of their own car when cruising. There are a few ways of indicating interest to passersby.
Some guys will give their brake lights a tap as someone is driving by. Others will back into the parking spot so people who want to check them out can pull in right beside their window. Guys that are open to having a conversation will generally ahve their windows down.
Good luck with it James... let me know how you go!
Cheers
Rob!
Posted: Friday 20th August 2004, 6:15 AM
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