Giving Oral sex to a Man
There is no scientific formula for giving good head. If there was we would all be pros by now! Most men do however like a partner that is not afraid to “get into” what she/he is doing and is not afraid to make a mess or a little noise. And by all means go slow! You don’t need to rush to the orgasm part right away. Take your time…begin by teasing your partner with your breath; inhaling and exhaling on such a sensitive body part is sure to ignite arousal. Tease with your hands as you run your fingers up and down his unit. Don’t be afraid to explore all areas of your man’s genitalia including the scrotum sack, penis and anus. Men – first be sure you have cleaned your genital region with mild soap and water if you want your partner to venture down there with their mouth. As well, trimming your pubic hair will allow your partner to explore your genitalia more thoroughly as it won’t be covered with mounds of hair.
Begin by running your tongue up and down the length of his penis getting him ready for insertion. Once he is fully inside of your mouth, use your tongue to flick the tip of the head back and forth. Figure eights with your tongue work well while taking the penis further into your mouth. Some men will like it if you draw a light vacuum with your mouth. To accomplish this, take as much of the penis in your mouth as feels comfortable, make a seal around the shaft with your lips and suck some of the air out of your mouth. Then, as you pull your head back, a vacuum is created. Using your mouth and tongue are not the only body parts you can use to give good head. Don’t be afraid to use your hands! Use one hand to arouse the scrotum sack while you use the other hand in a “corkscrew” motion at the base of the penis. Be sure that your hand is lubed for more comfort for your partner. Don’t be afraid to venture underneath the penis with your mouth as well. Lick and suck the scrotum sack in your mouth, but be gentle! This is a very sensitive area for the man. Lick around the anus (but be sure to be clean). Some men even like a finger inserted into their anus to stimulate their prostate while fellatio is being performed. Take your time once again and tease him, let him know that you are enjoying what you are doing! And partners: communicate to the giver if they are doing something uncomfortable or irritating to you. Don’t be afraid of noises that your mouth will naturally make. Slobbering all over the penis will actually lubricate him for more comfort. I actually received the best advice from watching a porn…those girls aren’t afraid of a little noise and mess, why should we be!
If your doing it right, your partner will let you know. The next step is referred to as the “Deep Throat” method. Begin by relaxing first; you must open the back of your throat to take the penis. If you don’t, you may gag. A great product to help stop the gag reflex is called Pleasure Balm by Kama Sutra. It has an ingredient that will numb the back of your throat, hence stopping the gag reflex…and it’s completely safe for the guy. If you want to practice first, to master this step, go to the market and buy a vegetable the approximate size of his penis…and practice, practice, practice!
The next step is the inevitable…the orgasm! Most partners are split down the middle on whether to spit or whether to swallow. If you are going to swallow…then enjoy the treat you have earned! Show your partner that you enjoy it…it will turn him on even more. Now for those that spit, I’m sure by now you have figured out a tactful way to do so, either a cup by the bed, in your hand or in a towel. If it’s the taste that you don’t like, try having your partner eat kiwi, celery or pineapple and eat less red meat. This will make the ejaculate less salty hence more tolerable for you.
Posted: Thursday 12th August 2004, 1:49 AM
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